I'm A Somatic Practitioner & Here's Why I Recommend Taking Microbreaks Throughout The Day

I always struggled with sleep and insomnia until I had my son Solomon. When he was eight months old and having sleep issues, I recognized that I had to change my relationship to sleep so his nervous system could find its way through mine. Infants and young children learn to sleep through co-regulation with their caregivers' nervous system1. This is part of what creates trust, which leads to feeling safe enough to sleep.

We often talk about blocking blue light, synching up with our circadian rhythms, and not eating a heavy meal before bed to support sleep. What is often left out of the sleep conversation are the important aspects of trust and safety, which are essential to a good night’s rest. If we don’t feel safe enough in our bodies to drop down into sleep as I didn’t, we might continue to miss out on our essential rest until we learn how to feel safe. This is work that I was fortunate to do with Solomon, and we taught each other to sleep in those early years. 

5:30-6 a.m.: Wake up to the sunrise. We don’t have curtains in our house and live by the sun's light. I do my best as often as possible to go to sleep with the sunset and wake up with the sunrise. With young children, this doesn’t always go as planned, but it is the larger intention that I hold around sleep. Even when I am exhausted, getting up with the sunrise helps me feel more recharged, especially if I can get outside for a few minutes before making breakfast. This helps to set the tone for the day and set my body clock.

6:30 p.m.: Read to our three kids and tuck them into bed.

7:30 p.m.: Clean up the kitchen, fold laundry, and finish housework for the night.

8 p.m.: Do my face routine with Marie Veronique line for aging skin; this is one of my favorite nighttime rituals that nourishes my skin and keeps it healthy, but also grounds my nervous system and prepares me for sleep. Do the rest of the bathroom things, floss, brush my teeth, take out my contacts, brush my hair.

8:30 p.m.: Feed our 7-week-old baby, get her ready for sleep, swaddle her, place her in the crib

9:30 p.m.: Depending on the night, I either catch up with Nic, try to get a little more work finished, or listen to an audiobook.

9:30-9:45 p.m.: Crawl in bed and practice gentle breathing or yoga nidra. I usually fall asleep in 15 minutes. After tracking my sleep for the last few months with Oura, this is my ideal bedtime window. I try to align with my sleep chronotype as it does make a difference in how I feel. I am more of a morning person.

1-2 a.m.: Feed our baby again and get her back to sleep. I keep the house lights off to disrupt my sleep as little as possible and have her diapers, wipes, etc. right next to the bed to keep things simple for myself. When needed, I turn on a salt lamp in the kitchen and prep her bottles. Once she is down, I can usually go back to sleep pretty quickly.