A Noom Psychologist's Advice For Coping With Quarantine & Avoiding Obsession

If there's anything we could all use right now, it's some wise words from mental health experts. The past year has been mentally taxing on everyone, and as we continue to navigate our new normal, it's important we learn to properly take care of ourselves from the inside out.

Forced self-isolation due to COVID can quickly become overwhelming. However, as with every challenge in life, it presents new opportunities to make positive changes and establish a new "normal." Throughout this time of uncertainty, a routine can create a sense of accomplishment and can help you create new coping skills. If you're someone who decompressed during your commute, create a new routine that breaks up the workday from your evenings at home. This will also give you a chance to set and maintain boundaries that ensure you are meeting all of your basic needs, like sleep and stepping away from screens. 

Also, everyone's mental well-being is under pressure right now, making self-care more important than ever. Whether it's taking an online meditation class or indulging in a relaxing bubble bath, choose an opportunity that will allow your mind to get a much-needed break. 

Break down your task. Big goals are great to have—it's important to know what you are working toward and where you are headed! Trying to tackle them all at once, however, can feel overwhelming. Instead, try breaking down your big goal into smaller, achievable tasks. A good rule of thumb is making it a SMART goal (specific, measurable, attainable, realistic, time-bound). If your goal is to wake up every single morning to go running, but you haven't run in a long time, start off by just waking up in the morning at that earlier time or walking instead of running. Over time, you can increase your time spent exercising and pace. Think of each task as a building block—starting with small steps can still lead to big changes.

Don't wait around for motivation. Motivation ebbs and flows, and it can be particularly difficult to stay motivated when you're trying to do something new that might feel uncomfortable. While it may seem counterintuitive, sometimes pushing yourself to do something—even when you don't feel like it—can jump-start motivation and help you build momentum. Once the behavior is associated with something positive, like stress relief, increased energy, or even confidence, instead of discomfort or failure, it can be easier and more encouraging to do! 

Multitasking

In reality, multitasking does not exist. Our minds actually "task switch" and unconsciously go from one task to another in a very quick manner. This can lead to a drop in performance and execution since we are not solely concentrating on a single task or outcome and our minds become overwhelmed.

Single-tasking (the opposite of task switching) actually allows you to get more done. Self-control or willpower is a limited resource. When we single-task, we sip on our self-control resource from a straw. When we balance and switch to multiple tasks in quick succession, we require several straws, but that doesn't usually work, so we lose the lid and start chugging. Very quickly, our self-control vanishes, and stress ensues.

Predicting the Future

Some studies estimate that we spend about 47% of our time "stuck" in the past or predicting the future? Not physically, of course. But mentally, we do. For most people, this type of mental head space is one of the top sources of stress. Enter the solution: mindfulness! Mindfulness involves being in the present moment and can prevent you from experiencing the stress that comes from thinking about the past and/or the future.

Staying Up to Get More Done

When trying to maintain healthy eating habits, it can be especially frustrating to find yourself in the kitchen, halfway through a bag of chips before you even realize what you're doing. This is called mindless eating and it's pretty common. Over-snacking and stress eating can often bring on guilt and self-deprecating thoughts, like, "Why can't I stick to my healthy habits?" "What's wrong with me?" "I'll never succeed."

Give yourself some compassion...this is a hard time. If you are not able to accomplish everything you want to—that is OK!

People can be very hard on themselves, berating their failures, and feel guilty when they fall back into old habits. This can add huge pressure and can really affect our mental health. However, when we break down unrealistic goals and expectations, then we can begin to see that we are capable of making changes when we set ourselves up for success.

First, just listen. Most people want and need to be heard. Resist the urge to jump in and "solve" all their problems. Consider what you would find helpful if you were in a similar situation. Perhaps ask them what they need in this moment and how you can help. If you are worried about them and their safety and you feel they need more support than you can offer, consider talking to your friend about seeking professional help or medical assistance