How To Talk Dirty During Sex, On The Phone & Whenever

The dirty things you say to your partner should feel natural and flow with the moment. It doesn't have to be super creative; it just needs to feel good to you and your partner. "Good sex is supposed to be freeing and explorative," Boodram explains.

The comfort you feel in your relationship has everything to do with what you're willing to try sexually. "Talking with your partner(s) beforehand about your interests in dirty talk can be a great way to reduce the anxiety when you're actually in the moment," sex and relationships therapist Kamil Lewis, AMFT, tells mbg.

I'm so wet/hard right now.

I don't have any panties on.

I'm dripping.

I need to feel you against me.

I need your lips against my skin.

Just wait until we get home.

I want your mouth on me.

I want you to fuck me from behind.

I want you inside of me.

I want to see you play with yourself.

I want you to undress me.

I want you between my thighs.

I want to taste you.

Hold me.

Caress me all over.

Come for me.

Kiss my nipples.

Choke me.

Grab my ass.

Just like that.

Right there.

Pull my hair.

Bite me.

Look at me.

Talk to me.

Say my name.

Whisper in my ear.

Don't stop.

Moan for me.

Stroke my cock.

Play with my clit.

Get over here.

You feel so good inside me.

You do that so well.

Your cock/pussy feels amazing.

I love your body.

I love it when you grit your teeth.

I love it when you whisper in my ear.

I love it when you touch me there.

I love the way you moan.

Harder.

Slower.

More.

Faster.

Deeper.

Please.

Louder.

I love how hard you can make me come.

Your tongue is magical.

That was incredible.

I keep thinking about your body against mine.

I can't get you out of my mind.

Remember last night when we [insert sexual activity]? Wow.

What sex position was your favorite?

My body misses your [insert body part].

When you get here, I'm going to [insert sexual activity].

I really liked it when we [insert sexual activity]. Let's try that again.

I can't wait to fuck you tonight.

I've been thinking about [fill in the blank] all day long, and I can't wait until we can [fill in the blank].

What do you think about doing [insert sexual activity] the next time we're in bed?

I've been looking forward to sitting on your face all day long.

That thing you do with your [insert body part] really makes me hot.

It makes me horny when you [fill in the blank].

You're always on my mind.

I want you so bad.

You look good enough to put in my mouth today.

You make me so wet/hard when you moan.

Whether you're having phone sex for the first time or you're in a long-distance relationship, here are some dirty things to say when you're virtually connecting with someone. Pair with a long-distance sex toy to really up the ante (might we suggest the We-Vibe Sync?).

I wish I was there.

I wish I could hold you right now.

I miss the way you feel inside of me.

I miss the way you taste.

I miss the way your [insert body part] feels [insert verb] against my [insert body part].

When I get back, I'm going to [insert sexual activity].

I can't wait until I can go down on you again.

I'm going to fuck you so hard when I see you.

Thinking about you is making me so wet/hard right now. 

I want to see you naked...right now.

Just hearing your voice makes me want to touch myself.

I love it when you talk like that.

Tell me what you want to do to me.

I want to feel how wet/hard you are.

Play with yourself for me.

Whisper dirty things to me.

What are you wearing right now?

Are you touching yourself?

Do you want to have FaceTime sex?

Are you alone?

Do you miss my body?

What else do you like when I do it to you?

Do you want to listen to me come?

The way you're sexting me is hot; want to show me what you're talking about?