Looking For A New Ritual? How To Pull Oracle Cards With Your Partner

Oracle decks are divination tools that can help you tap into your inner wisdom and gain clarity and confidence in different areas of life. Use the following oracle-reading steps to enhance intimacy, strengthen your bond, and explore new dimensions of your relationship at any time.

First, you want to set your intention for your deck. Pick a deck that will bring you support and guidance in your relationships. It doesn't have to be a deck on relationships, but the theme itself can lead to it. (For example, my Unshakable Inner Peace deck is designed to bring you peace, so if you are seeking more peace in your love life, this deck could be a great pick.) Most oracle cards are designed around a theme or key message, so find one that resonates with both of you.

By carving out creative ways to set the scene and make the reading feel like a ritual, you'll have a date night with purpose, and this in itself will be a night worth remembering.

If you don't have a specific concern or question, you can always ask, "What message does the universe have for us?" The important thing is to simply be present with the feelings and emotions that come up.

Keep asking the question (in your mind) until you intuitively feel (or hear) when it is time to stop shuffling, and pick a card. Pick that card, then use the booklet to see the full interpretation and reading. Also, pay close attention to any cards that stick out, hang out, or jump and fall out of the deck. These cards are called "jumpers" and are extra potent. They're always meant for you, as they are thought to hold the answer you need at that moment.

Pay attention to the colors, the specific images, and the key character in each image. Ask your partner how they feel when they experience the images. As you observe together, your inner guidance will give you even more messages to assist in the reading. Use the cards to connect to each other, and explore the reading possibilities and outcome together.

An oracle reading is a unique and special way to connect with your partner on a day all about love. Share what comes up in your reading, and just have fun with it! As you give each other permission to share, you grow closer by listening to each other and allowing each person to interpret the messages as they unfold.